Congratulations! You're Getting Married! Now What?

You've finally to make the big step with your loved one, and now you're faced with the thrilling task of planning the big day. But where do you start?

Preparing for a wedding is indeed like managing a large project, requiring careful attention to detail and coordination. From finding the perfect date to booking venues, sending out invitations, choosing dresses, preparing the liturgy, and more – there's a lot to take care of!

To make this process less overwhelming, let's break it down into three initial steps to focus on.

Step 1: Find a Spiritual Director

The first step in planning your wedding is to find a spiritual director – typically a priest or consecrated person. This individual will guide you through the wedding preparation process, ensuring that both of you are spiritually prepared to receive the Sacrament of Marriage. They will also advise on the necessary steps to comply with Canon Law.

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Step 2: Make a List of People to Invite

Next, think about the number of guests you'd like to invite. This will help you make informed decisions about venue bookings and subsequent preparations.

Here are some tips for creating your guest list:

1. Have an idea of the number of people you would like to invite, taking into consideration the size of available venues in your area;
2. Think about any specific needs or restrictions that may impact guest attendance;
3. Be mindful of potential travel costs or logistical challenges for out-of-town guests.

To make managing this process easier, AnointedWedding includes a guest management section, where you can:

1. Add guests and keep track of their responses;
2. Sync your list with your partner to ensure everyone is on the same page;
3. Stay organized by changing guest statuses (e.g., invited, replied, or still to be contacted).

Step 3: Choose a Date

The date you choose for your wedding can have a significant impact on the overall experience. Most weddings take place during weekends or feast days to ensure maximum attendance.

Here are some suggestions when selecting a date:

1. Pick a day that holds special meaning for both of you (your favourite Saint's Feast day, one of the Feast days dedicated to Our Lady...);
2. Be aware that weddings are forbidden during Lent;
3. Consider avoiding peak season dates if possible.

Once you've decided on a date, you can use the AnointedWedding's to-do section to plan the subsequent steps.

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Additional Tips

In addition to these three initial steps, here are some additional suggestions to keep in mind:

1. Set clear expectations with your partner regarding roles, responsibilities, and communication.
2. Prioritize tasks based on importance and urgency.
3. Don't hesitate to ask for help when needed – whether from family members, friends, or professionals.
4. Let the AnointedWedding app help you through the wedding management process!

By following these steps and tips, you'll be well on your way to planning a beautiful, meaningful wedding celebration!